MH 370 ???

One of the historical phenomena just happened in Malaysia that surprised all over the world.It is because of disappearance of Malaysia Airlines Flight MH370. The questions is WHY??? HOW ??? and before that let's we take a look about the chronology of this accident.

Boeing 737 : one of the best safety records of commercial aircraft in service.

Last position of MH 370 before dissapear.

This airplane was disappeared on 8 March 2014 that was scheduled to fly from Malaysia capital ,Kuala Lumpur (KLIA) to Beijing, China.It disappeared from civilian radar screens about an hour into the scheduled six-hour flight.At the time it was 120 nautical miles off the town of Kota Bharu, on Malaysia's east coast. The aircraft was operated by Malaysia Airline and was carrying 12 crew members and 227 passengers from 15 countries.

Chronology of missing MH370 

SEARCH AND RESCUE TEAMS

Search and Rescue teams from :

Malaysia

Vietnam

China

USA

Japan

Taiwan

India

Indonesia

Singapore




















Are there any suspicious circumstances?

IS IT INCIDENTAL?????

PHENOMENA AFTER MISSING MH370....

Positivism

The term of "positivism" is defined as the state or character of being positive or something positive, a positivity that that accept the world as it is. However, it is a subjective terms for us to define because other people have their own view. So that, let me pick one quotes from a figure that show us on how crucial to be positive practice it.

“Keep your thoughts positive because your 
thoughts become your words. 
Keep your words positive because your
 words become your behavior. 
Keep your behavior positive because your 
behavior becomes your habits. 
Keep your habits positive because your 
habits become your values. 
Keep your values positive because your 
values become your destiny.” 

― Mahatma Gandhi--

From the quotes above, we can conclude that positivity is crucial for us because it will lead us to be an excellent people in future. So that, we must always be in positive such as think positively and show out the positive action. In order to carry  a positive action, we must develop a positive attitude. The way we think is actually shows the identity of a person. We can compare between people with negative and positive thinking. For example, in a problem situation, usually, people who have negative thinking they were easily give up and become hopeless. However, people with always in positive seen calm, relax while try to find the solution for the problems even they do not know whether its exactly help to solve the problem or not but they still try for many ways. Their looks the problems by the positive side. they turn a negative situation into a positive situation. 

People who practice the positive character in themselve look knowledgeable, optimise, responsible, smart and so many good characteristics of them. That  is why I said that be positive can change us for 360 degree of our life in every side. Such as, the way we think, communicate with other people, in giving opinion and even the way we walk show up our self-personality. We look mature with broad thinking.

The Important of Soft Skill for Graduate

What are soft skills???

Before we are going any further on discussing about the important of soft skills for graduate, let's us starting with the basic on term of "soft skill". What exactly the meaning of "soft skill".According to the online "Wikipedia" gives a definition that soft skill refer to the cluster of personality traits,social graces, facility with language , personal habits, friendliness and optimism .Soft skill complement hard skills, which are one of the requirements of a job nowadays.

Some examples of soft skills.

communication skill

                       problem solving

creativity

                        integrity

critical thinking

                                      teamwork

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                     work ethic          time management

Nowadays, a Bachelor or Masters degree will act as a passport to a dream job for graduate.Unfortunately, employers want more from employees not just qualification with the flying color.What are really want are good amount of 'soft skills'.According to Debbie Hance of Association of British psychologists, "There's a saying that hard skills will enable you to perform well in academic and interviews, but your soft skills get the job from you".

In a workplace,graduate must quickly to make a decision but the important is must gathering all the important fact,seeking advice from seniors,and being aware with all consideration.All these thing going to make a good decision.Then,employers want graduate more dependable, reliable, enthusiastic and enjoy their work.Graduate who are able to step outside from their comfort or safe zone and try on something that their have not done before is really have a good asset because employers love people the very positive and multitasking people.The ability to apply both logic and creativity to solve problem is very valued by the employers.If graduate kind of person who are try to fix the problem so their will stand in a good stead.Team work means a good team player has their own goal in their mind and work as a team in order to achieve it.They have to be open and honest and also give a constructive suggestions otherwise listen to others explanation.

Soft skills are very important to increase the graduate's attitude to learning, motivates themselves,core values and can adapt with every single situations in a workplace.Because their must challenging themselves to submit the report or task before the deadline.Can the graduate put in their focus in a short period of time to achieve the result than the employer expectation?.Employers lookout the graduate who put their pride in work and confident enough in their work.When the thing go wrong , do not pass the buck because everyone make a mistake and that how the graduate react and learn in the workplace.

Depression

Everyone occasionally feels blue or sad. Everyone is different and it is often a combination of factor that can contribute to a person developing depression.  The sypmtoms of depression people are they feels empty, worried, hopeless, irritable, hurt and restless. However, these feeling are usually just for a short-lived and will be well within a couple of days. Everyone of us must experienced depression in many ways and factors and thus contribute to our life performance.

There have several factors that lead a person to depression. An evidence was suggested by a researcher, depression may be related to the changes on the levels or activity on certain chemicals in our brain. Particularly, serotmine, norepinephrine and dopamine hormone. From the fact, there are three chemicals related to mood and motivation that carry message to our brain. Thus, the changes of level of the hormone have also been affected people with depression. Research suggests that behaviour also can affect brain chemistry. For example, long-term stress may cause changes in brain that can lead to depression. 

Other than that, depression may caused from family problems such as parents divorce. Childrens feel they are being ignored by their parents. Parents should showing their attention and care to their childrens because in the stage of grown they need a guidance to help them in study and sharing problems. No wonder if nowadays, many child and teens exposed to many social problems. That is all caused by stress. They have no body, no parents to guide them, hear them, understand their feeling and thought. They are also will make a comparison between their friends when they see her/his friends was invited by their parents during went home from school.They will feel stress. To release their stress, they will find a ways for them to be happy. They will find their friends to share because they have no parents at home. Parents are busy on their work in additionally always fight each other. 

Too many work and forces also may lead us to depression if we can not handle that situations. In study, sometimes parents put high expectation on their child to achieve the best result in every examination they take. Every person has his/her own ability and each person has different talent to show. For example, the elder child is excellent in study while the younger one excellent in sport. But parent keep pushing their children to fulfill their satisfaction without give a chance for their children to express their inner feelings on what they want to do. Thus, it will make the children feel so stress on the force by their parents. They feel that they are not being appreciated by their parents. To overcome this problems, parents should be understand their child ability and talent. Parents should talk to child, listen to them, comfort them and give a chance for them to proved their excellent on their chosen. Children will feel parents are validated with them, hence, free from any stress.

There have several effect of depression. Depression will affect our daily life and causes us to feeling low, become passive, does not have spirit, have low self-esteem and so more. But, if depression continuously in ourselves, it may become a serious illness. So, everybody must be able to control the feeling and try to find the way to release the stress besides think rasionally. This is because who those experienced depression, commonly they can not think normally. Sometimes, they are overthinking. They become too worry like the problems have no solutions till end up their life.Thus, it will effect their lifestyle, attitude, study and work.

Social Problems among Teenagers.

Nowadays, teenagers face many problems on a daily life especially during the their most awkward growth stages. During this time, teens are exposed to some overwhelming external and internal problems. Teens go through, and they are expected to cope with hormonal changes, puberty, social and parental forces, work and school pressures, as well as encountering many conditions and problems. They feel overwhelmed when faced with stresses concerning about school and college,trouble of friends and also career confusion situations. Those who have absentee parents are exposed to more unfavorable states of life. 

The issues that teenagers face today vary but its still can be handled if parents or guardians can understand the symptoms of their problems. Parents should approach their children. Many teens feel misunderstood. It is vital for parents to understand them. When the teens face self-esteem and body image problems, they can become frustrated, and affected in eating disorders. Usually, they start to feeling stress when they are exposed to peer-pressure such as competition at school, or child abuse at home. In this condition, they could not think positively even to make the decision and some may be will quarelling. Many teens resort to crimes once they feel they cannot get any help or support. Thus, they may run away from home, play computer games, and start chatting online with strangers. Their study will be ignored and become brutal. An addition, play computer games and online chatting can result in addiction. 

Self-Esteem and Body Image

Body image is really important especially for women. Hormonal changes could effects on the growth and mood of the teens. When they do not like something in themselves, they have self-esteem and body image problems. Some teenagers feel too fat, too skinny, too tall and too short. This feeling leads them to spend time wishing they were not too skinny, too short, their hair was not too curly or vice versa. 

The problem with this feeling, its affects their self-image. Its make teenagers to compare themselves with people around them and when they find they do not match their standards, they feel low. They also compare themselves with those seen on TV, in movies, and in the magazines. To develop their positive self-esteem, it is affected by family life and parental criticism. Teenagers who get negative comments about their image appearances and the way they talk also resulting on poor self-esteem. 

Depression 

Depression also one of the worst problems that some teenagers suffer from and it can lead to more problems in the future. Especially as a student, depression may arise from poor self-esteem and work stress. 

The way to overcome depression is parents should talk to the teens, listen to their child, comfort them  and accept their child for who they are. It is important that teens feel validated in their feelings and thoughts because what they are going through is a real part of their lives. Parents and guardians should not judge or criticise their feelings or thoughts. They should tell their child how important it is to have high self-esteem and be comfortable in their body.

There have more depression symptoms. Changes in sleep patterns, eating habits, declined interest in normal and healthy activities, dropping grades in school and college, and preferred isolation are all signs of depression. If teenagers begin talking about their depression, they should be allowed to express their feelings, and parents should understand their feelings by listening to them without interrupting the conversation. It is the way to make them feel comfortable with parents and not searching other person or friends to shared. Mostly, teenagers will shared their problems with friends because they feel that parents does not validated with their feelings and thought. Usually, parents will scold them, not accepted them for who they are then it will lead them to more social problems outside.

Cyber Addiction

As we know, the Internet offers benefits in developing a teen's ability to grow up with modern technology, technical ideas, knowledge and other skills. However, using the internet, particularly the social networking websites, unsafely puts the teenagers at very high risk for many problems. When children spend more than enough they tend to be cyber addicts. As they spend more time on social networking, gaming,chatting, youtube and other websites, they suffer from cyber addiction. When someone was addicted to internet, they will ignored their lifestyle and have no mission and planning for their work. They just focusing on the internet, buzy on new application to downloads thus will lead them on their thought.

Cyber addiction can be just as harmful as addiction to drugs or drinking alcohol. Teenagers who spend unhealthy amounts of time on the Internet or online suffer from a condition recognized as Internet Addiction Disorder (IAD). The impact for those who have IAD conditions, they may experience distress,  obsessive thoughts, tremors, and other mental and physical problems. Cyber addiction impairs the quality of their lives. Thus, the way to avoid this problems, parents should talk to their children and agree on a list of rules that clearly say when to use the internet, which sites they should visit and what safety measures they should follow. Teachers can also ensure safe browsing of the web at schools and colleges for teenage students.